Attending a social event, I was the only black female in the entire ballroom. When I came in, I was stared at and I often heard whispers and chants. I felt out of place. When a cocktail waitress came around with she look at me up and down and walk away. I immediately wanted to knock her in her head but I keep my composure. I was with a close friend, so I continue to mingle with her and some associates.
Experiencing this I felt a little embarrassed, sad, and out of place. I really did not understand why people would look at me because of the color of my skin. Being in that environment I understand the definition of isms. Racism has always been a study I want to learn more about. . Racism is the belief that inherent different traits in human racial groups justify discrimination. The term is commonly used negatively and is usually associated with race-based prejudice, violence, dislike, discrimination, or oppression, the term can also have varying and contested definitions
Thanks for sharing your experience Tameka. It is frustrating and disturbing to think people still act this way in our modern day. The truth is that some people really don't take time to listen and learn about others, to appreciate differences, and recognize similarities. They miss out on many valuable connections by being racist and discriminating against others. I am thankful we have the opportunity to grow in our awareness this week and learn how to prevent the "isms" in our thoughts, actions, and words.
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ReplyDeleteI went through an experience similar to yours. I had to attend a new teacher orientation, and I was the only black there. I kept seeing some looks on their faces, but their interactions were different. I am a very friendly person, so I chose to ignore the looks and still enjoy myself. Also, I won the gift price from one of the insurance agents :)Today in life, we have to choose our destiny, and what we make out of it.
Tameka
ReplyDeleteAs an African-American female, I have had similar experiences. I am glad you were honest about your anger. Anger is something I have been trying to manage. I rely on the Bible quite a bit to manage my anger, but this class is helping a lot. Hopefully, this class will give us strategies for not only helping children and families, but also for helping ourselves.