I am a type of person that have a close relationship with everyone in my family. My family is very important to me. I cherished every moment I have with them. I have a very close relationship with my sister. We can share and sercets and most memorable moments. My mother and I also have a close relationship. Sometimes I see my mother as a sister. We also have many memorable moments that we shared every time I see her.
A positive relationship would be one where there can be honesty, caring, and communication with each other. Also there needs to be compromise on both sides. Always remember to hear the other person out as well. This goes for any relationship, whether it is a friendship, family, lover, etc... These are positive factors of relationship and partnerships.
There is evidence that relationships follow a developmental path. Understanding this will help in understanding challenges in relationships. Some people negotiate these stages relatively easily but the growing pains of any relationship can bring up traumatic issues for individuals.Each couple will find particular challenges depending on who they are, childhood issues and the circumstances of life that trigger responses to each other. Problems between couples arise when stages are skipped or there is a difficulty moving from one to the next. Follow article for more information.http://www.aipc.net.au/articles/?p=253
Some characteristics of relationship are :
Talking and acting so that your partner feels safe and comfortable doing and saying things
Listening to your partner non-judgmentally
Being emotionally affirming and understanding.
Valuing opinions.
Mutually agreeing on a fair distribution of work.
Making family decisions together
As an early childhood professor, I can use my effective knowldege about positive relationship and partnership with in the classroom. I can demonmstrate to my students and parents of all the positive poutcomes of producing them. They will see the great effect it has on people in their surroundings.
Tameka I really appreciated your comments about the importance of carving out time to spend with one's own children. I find it so unfortunate that in this crazy world we live in families are not able to sit down and learn about each other during family meals. I think this is really one of the most valuable opportunities that you have as a parent to understand the person your child is becoming.
ReplyDeleteTameka, What a great post! I like the way your family consist of your boys and the entire family. I also agree with meal time is the best time of the day for family to talk and do catch up time. I believe this comment is worth encouraging our parent to do the same. My children are grown and in their own houses now. I truly miss this time of the day that we shared. Thanks, for helping me to remember!
ReplyDeleteTameka, In any relationship there should be compromise for the bonding to be felt. The article you cited in your blog is very informative and educational, I will share the cite with my loved ones. Thank you.
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